Strict parents in your 20s ep 1

As stated in the above topic, strict parents in your 20s. What does it mean by strict?

According to the dictionary,

strict= demanding that rules concerning behaviour are obeyed and observed.

Okay then, what does it mean by strict parents? It is the parent who demand the rules concerning behavior are obeyed and observed.

Ok now, let us move on to the phrase in your 20s. Twenty years old and above are considered adult. What does adult mean?

Adult= A person who is fully grown and developed

Hence, to sum up the definition, it is those adult who is monitored all the time by their strict parents. Why do i choose this topic? Because it related to me in so many ways. So many but i do not know how to start rather than giving a very simple definition.

let me tell you a story.

To be continue.

Redha

Hi and assalamualaikum wbt. Wait. First, let me blow the dusts off. Woah, its been a very long time since i did not post anything. You can definitely see the dusts everywhere on my blog, like here and there. Haha. 

Oh okay, by the way, i am here because i feel like want to blogging about something and its on the topic above. It is Redha. I think this topic is very interesting to talk about because it really involves many of us as a human being, as a slave of Allah. 

We all know that everyone will be tested by the Almighty. It is just that the test might be different. Some people might be tested by losing both of their parents in such a small age, some people might have their parents until they reached 40+ but their family is broken. Divorced parents. There are also people who might be not tested by their parents, but by something else. For example, their looks. They might not have a good looking that it makes them feel worthless and ungrateful. You know what, everyone, everyone will be tested. 

There are times that we often asked ourselves, "why me?" From all the people on earth, why i am the one have to go through this? We often feel give up and lose hope , and our imaan tend to be disturbed because of the ungrateful feeling. That is the time where the devil whispered to you. So how do we overcome this?

As for me, i am a human too. There are times that I feel angry, sad, happy. And there are also happy time and tough time. Sometimes when the hardship hits me, i always cry myself for not being strong enough to face this. There are times where i opened my social media and expressed everything on that. However, when i become rational and can think properly, i asked myself, why do i have to post or express all my problems on social media. It often lead to negativity. We all know that there are people who might observe from far, just to know our story, so that they can use that to fight us. See? It leads to negativity. 

But then, the best is by talking and expressing it to the Lord, because Allah is the solution to all the problems. He tested us to see how far we can overcome, and He can also take away all those burden from us. Allah said in the quran,

Allah does not beyond a burden beyond it can bear.

We think that we are the only one who is in difficulty, but yet we do not know that others are facing more hardship than us. We take a look to the Palestin, Syria. They are dying to survive in such a horrible country. Bombed all over the country. Homeless, no food. For one second, i want those who read this to say Alhamdulillah for all the nikmah that Allah has given to us. 

Alhamdulillah.

"One key to be grateful is by remembering that others are facing more difficulty than us. From that we can practice ourselves to be grateful and content in life."

In a nutshell, i want to summarize by providing the quotes Nur drama that i watched. There is one scene where Ustaz Adam said, when we accept the test, the difficulty with an open heart, or more precisely, Redha, it is when we pass the test. We accept, we face it with full of patience, and we ask help from Allah, that is when we pass the test. Actually, Allah gives us hardship because He loves us and He wants us to get close to Him. It is fitrah for human to turn back to HIm when they are in difficulty. Hence, the more difficulty we faced in life, the closer we are to Allah.

To all my beloved readers, whatever problems you have right now, i know that you are able to go through it. Talk to Him more, because He is the solution to all the problems.

That is all from me. Xoxo, tiqah

Being Kind and Respectful to All.

Respect is when a person has a sense of appreciation and admiration for the good qualities,deeds and achievements of another. if we respect someone, it is because we acknowledging them for their personality and their actions mostly for their kindness,concern and generosity.

In the case of Mother Teresa,she had done good deeds and contributed by tending to the poor and hungry people in the slums of Calcutta,India. although respect for older people and others is very much part of our culture, it seems to be lacking in many people these days.

we need to admit that young generation right now are very much hooked to their smartphones and other gadgets,and do not seem to have time to acknowledge family and friends around them. some of this behavior may also be attributed to their upbringing. many parents being so busy with their careers and businesses hardly have time to nurture their children to cultivate good habits.

children these days are very demanding and expect everything to be given to them. in school, they expect the same treatment and if the teachers fail to treat them the way their parents do, they can get into a rage and become difficult.

the lack of manners and bad behavior is unacceptable.we need to say please and thank you and even apologise when we are in the wrong. when we treat people with kindness,others will treat us the same way too. we also need to listen attentively to other people and show an interest in what they say and do. we must not belittle others because of their background,faith or social status. this only potrays us as being arrogant and ruthless people.

when we respect someone,we must respect their choices. we cannot force them to decide or do something when they are not willing to do so. we also need to value other people's opinion but at the same time,we should not blindly follow whatever they say. we need to understand their opinion, and then present our reasons for agreeing or disagreeing with them.

we cannot change the world,but we can change ourselves.

trip to pulau langkawi.

Assalamualaikum and good afternoon everyone. i just got back from Perak, my mother's hometown. actually we were having trip to Pulau Langkawi last saturday. it took about 7/8 hours to arrive there. it was so tiring to spend my whole day in the car, you know................. i have 5 siblings including me, and we were jostling one another  until we arrived at Kuala Perlis to overnight .

Day 1.
i consider the next day as day 1. in the morning, we were having breakfast at the stall in front of the ferri's station. while i was eating nasi goreng and roti bakar, i suddenly saw a girl.  haha i think this is quite funny. but i don't know her ,so i think this is not considered as "backbiting". In Shaa Allah, i hope so. i saw a girl, she was wearing  all black from head to toe,and her face is so fair. not naturally fair,but i think she wore a wrong shade of foundation. it looks kinda scary,but somehow i feel sorry to her because i have been there when i was in form 3. i looked at her and i smiled. and guess what? she noticed. i was afraid at that time,because she looked angry haha. then i immediately lower my gaze and i looked at somewhere else, and i didn't look at her again.  and i was like, " ikutlah,tak ada kaitan dengan aku pun". then, i bumped into someone that looks familiar. he's living in SU too. that's all. ergh kenapa aku cerita semua ni, boringnya..

okay so i will skip the boring one. after arrived at pulau langkawi by ferri, we were having trouble about the car that we rent. however, alhamdulillah everything settled after that,but i was so upset and tired and exhausted at that time. know what? the car that we used to rent is avanza. 7 seats. just enough for us. unfortunately, a guy that is responsible for the car said that  we got nissan almira only. it was cool and nice but you know, we were jostling like heck. i talked to myself, be patient and have faith. alhamdulillah we managed to enjoy our moment there.

then, ayah drove us to see beautiful scenery in Pulau Langkawi.

in the evening, we mandi kolam yippie!

sorry because i often took selfie only
 to keep it as a memory :(

Masa mandi kolam ni, i saw many types of race. because they are different, i looked them as the gorgeous creature on earth.

Day 2.

okay so here we go,day 2. we went to the Underwater world. finally, i managed to see penguins in live. they are so cute when they walk and swim. my little brother point out his finger and shake it. and what made me laugh was the penguin follow the finger, you know,left and right,left and right. when my brother moves faster, the penguin began to move faster too until it fell into the pond. haha, how cute.

after that, we went to Haji Ismail Group and Langkawi Saga to shop many types of chocolates,such as daim,toblerone, and anything else. we do observed the mall and i can make a conclusion that Langkawi Saga is more to chocolate. if you enter there, you will be so rambang mata. if you don't have money, you better don't go there,because you will end up be upset. i am not saying that the price is expensive. i think at Langkawi Saga,the price is quite reasonable and more to cheap. for example if i'm not mistaken, i got 6 toblerone that cost me rm12. pretty cool isn't it? At the Haji Ismail Group, my mother said that it sells more like perkakas dapur. pinggan mangkuk and so on. chocolates tak sebanyak dekat Langkawi Saga. So, tepuk dada tanya selera😉

DAY 3

It was tuesday and it was the most memorable day of mine in Langkawi   i got the first experience looking at the beautiful scenes in Pulau Langkawi from the top. It was beautiful,i swear. Even though it was quite sunny,but the wind was cold ,and i was feeling at peace. It suddenly reminds me of how small i am in this world.

you know, when your suara hati tells you that you are just a dot in this world.  that's what i thought when i saw beautiful scenery from above. it suddenly reminds me of the video " when the judgement day will come." you know, Allah's blessings upon us is just way too much. there will be never have endings if i list  it down. He stills let me, and all the human on earth to alive, even when He can make the stars to fall down and  destroy everything on earth, including us. so guys, be grateful,be thankful. Alhamdulillah....

DAY 4.

day 4, was the last day . we just took some photos at the beach and i managed to play ches with
my dad. tiqah vs ayah. muahaha for sure the game was winned by ayah, right? and i was not feeling well at that time, having sore throat and fever.

okay.

so, let me jump into conclusion. i would say that my trip to Langkawi was fun!