Being Kind and Respectful to All.

Respect is when a person has a sense of appreciation and admiration for the good qualities,deeds and achievements of another. if we respect someone, it is because we acknowledging them for their personality and their actions mostly for their kindness,concern and generosity.

In the case of Mother Teresa,she had done good deeds and contributed by tending to the poor and hungry people in the slums of Calcutta,India. although respect for older people and others is very much part of our culture, it seems to be lacking in many people these days.

we need to admit that young generation right now are very much hooked to their smartphones and other gadgets,and do not seem to have time to acknowledge family and friends around them. some of this behavior may also be attributed to their upbringing. many parents being so busy with their careers and businesses hardly have time to nurture their children to cultivate good habits.

children these days are very demanding and expect everything to be given to them. in school, they expect the same treatment and if the teachers fail to treat them the way their parents do, they can get into a rage and become difficult.

the lack of manners and bad behavior is unacceptable.we need to say please and thank you and even apologise when we are in the wrong. when we treat people with kindness,others will treat us the same way too. we also need to listen attentively to other people and show an interest in what they say and do. we must not belittle others because of their background,faith or social status. this only potrays us as being arrogant and ruthless people.

when we respect someone,we must respect their choices. we cannot force them to decide or do something when they are not willing to do so. we also need to value other people's opinion but at the same time,we should not blindly follow whatever they say. we need to understand their opinion, and then present our reasons for agreeing or disagreeing with them.

we cannot change the world,but we can change ourselves.

trip to pulau langkawi.

Assalamualaikum and good afternoon everyone. i just got back from Perak, my mother's hometown. actually we were having trip to Pulau Langkawi last saturday. it took about 7/8 hours to arrive there. it was so tiring to spend my whole day in the car, you know................. i have 5 siblings including me, and we were jostling one another  until we arrived at Kuala Perlis to overnight .

Day 1.
i consider the next day as day 1. in the morning, we were having breakfast at the stall in front of the ferri's station. while i was eating nasi goreng and roti bakar, i suddenly saw a girl.  haha i think this is quite funny. but i don't know her ,so i think this is not considered as "backbiting". In Shaa Allah, i hope so. i saw a girl, she was wearing  all black from head to toe,and her face is so fair. not naturally fair,but i think she wore a wrong shade of foundation. it looks kinda scary,but somehow i feel sorry to her because i have been there when i was in form 3. i looked at her and i smiled. and guess what? she noticed. i was afraid at that time,because she looked angry haha. then i immediately lower my gaze and i looked at somewhere else, and i didn't look at her again.  and i was like, " ikutlah,tak ada kaitan dengan aku pun". then, i bumped into someone that looks familiar. he's living in SU too. that's all. ergh kenapa aku cerita semua ni, boringnya..

okay so i will skip the boring one. after arrived at pulau langkawi by ferri, we were having trouble about the car that we rent. however, alhamdulillah everything settled after that,but i was so upset and tired and exhausted at that time. know what? the car that we used to rent is avanza. 7 seats. just enough for us. unfortunately, a guy that is responsible for the car said that  we got nissan almira only. it was cool and nice but you know, we were jostling like heck. i talked to myself, be patient and have faith. alhamdulillah we managed to enjoy our moment there.

then, ayah drove us to see beautiful scenery in Pulau Langkawi.

in the evening, we mandi kolam yippie!

sorry because i often took selfie only
 to keep it as a memory :(

Masa mandi kolam ni, i saw many types of race. because they are different, i looked them as the gorgeous creature on earth.

Day 2.

okay so here we go,day 2. we went to the Underwater world. finally, i managed to see penguins in live. they are so cute when they walk and swim. my little brother point out his finger and shake it. and what made me laugh was the penguin follow the finger, you know,left and right,left and right. when my brother moves faster, the penguin began to move faster too until it fell into the pond. haha, how cute.

after that, we went to Haji Ismail Group and Langkawi Saga to shop many types of chocolates,such as daim,toblerone, and anything else. we do observed the mall and i can make a conclusion that Langkawi Saga is more to chocolate. if you enter there, you will be so rambang mata. if you don't have money, you better don't go there,because you will end up be upset. i am not saying that the price is expensive. i think at Langkawi Saga,the price is quite reasonable and more to cheap. for example if i'm not mistaken, i got 6 toblerone that cost me rm12. pretty cool isn't it? At the Haji Ismail Group, my mother said that it sells more like perkakas dapur. pinggan mangkuk and so on. chocolates tak sebanyak dekat Langkawi Saga. So, tepuk dada tanya selera😉

DAY 3

It was tuesday and it was the most memorable day of mine in Langkawi   i got the first experience looking at the beautiful scenes in Pulau Langkawi from the top. It was beautiful,i swear. Even though it was quite sunny,but the wind was cold ,and i was feeling at peace. It suddenly reminds me of how small i am in this world.

you know, when your suara hati tells you that you are just a dot in this world.  that's what i thought when i saw beautiful scenery from above. it suddenly reminds me of the video " when the judgement day will come." you know, Allah's blessings upon us is just way too much. there will be never have endings if i list  it down. He stills let me, and all the human on earth to alive, even when He can make the stars to fall down and  destroy everything on earth, including us. so guys, be grateful,be thankful. Alhamdulillah....

DAY 4.

day 4, was the last day . we just took some photos at the beach and i managed to play ches with
my dad. tiqah vs ayah. muahaha for sure the game was winned by ayah, right? and i was not feeling well at that time, having sore throat and fever.

okay.

so, let me jump into conclusion. i would say that my trip to Langkawi was fun!

OCD?

assalamualaikum everyone. okay so, the clock shows at 6:43 pm in the evening, so i have free time to update. i actually do not have idea of what to write about,but it's okay. i will pick a random topic that connects to my life. what is it? OCD.

there are people who do not know what  ocd stands for. okay, OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. it is a mental disorder where people need to check one things repeatedly, perform certain routines repeatedly or have certain thoughts repeatedly. as you can see, everything is repeated . one who is ocd always not satisfied of what he or she does. 

as for me, i always repeated in checking my room, whether it is clean or not,i always put things at its place and .... haha i think it is quite funny. you may find that its funny but its real to me. okay, whenever my laptop/ smartphone is full of dust, i will wipe it until it is clean.  mean, i just want everything to be perfect. i try to not be like this, but i just can't. however, i am trying to be humble and a little messy because i find that being ocd is quite stressful. i can't imagine if i have a child one day. 

recently, i change my tempered glass screen protector for my phone as it is a bit "calar". i also bought a new coverphone that covers the whole of my smartphone. so that it will not calar again hihi.

there are a lot of things that you may find me ocd but i am not going to tell everything here. i told my mom once, how to overcome this. my mom said, there is only one solution which is.....

jangan layan perasaan itu.

just take it easy, and say "its normal ". everything in life is not perfect, so do us as a human. so, be positive and humble. * wink wink *

so i can say for those who have ocd, goodluck in managing your life! haha

thats all for me. 

xoxo T.

{ but my mother said that ocd is a disease. so for minor things like i had said above, i think it is not a real ocd.,IN SHAA ALLAH we can control it. }

MDS IN UITM TAPAH IS AWESOME!💖

assalamualaikum everyone. tiqah is back again with a new story! as you know,in my recent post,i have been handling with acne for quite sometime. and still handling it now,but only a little, like usual. not that much as before. and the scars also are nearly gone. i consistently do a lot of things and i can see changes on my face. i will share about it later,in shaa allah,since i'm not fully recover yet,so i don't want to give you guys 'harapan palsu' . hahahah sounds funny.

okay so, my topic today is about my first visit at UITM TAPAH! eceh first visit lah sangat kan,padahal itu la ibarat rumah kedua aku. OKAY SO, i went to uitm tapah last sunday. you know what, i was shocked and kelam kabut.mana tidaknya, result upu keluar last monday, and it said that i need to lapor diri on sunday. hahaha but aku kuatkan semangat,walaupun  2 3 kali juga lah menangis. sebab homesick. how cute am i? belum pergi lagi dah menangis. then, i did a lot of preparation and then, i went there on sunday with my family. as i reached there................... MA SHAA ALLAH. the uitm looks so beautiful. the view..........fuh. and guess what? i got only 1 roommate! i am so grateful until now,as i'm the type of person who love privacy. my brother advice me before "once you entered life in university, u cannot think about your privacy and so on. you must share everything, i mean the toilet, the room.." 
okay i take that as an advice,but still, so grateful :) alhamdulillah. Allah knows best.

okay then, the next day,mds (minggu destini siswa) had begun. my first impression was "aduh why are the seniors shouting?? so annoying". FIRST IMPRESSION OK,FIRST IMPRESSION.  They shouted because many of us late. that's why. so as i said,first impression only,second third ,fourth and next next next.......mds tapah was awesome!!  even though we had taklimat everyday, but before the taklimat, we did cheers and jokes and laughed with all alphas. aww still remember that sweet moment. some of the OC (SENIORS) did some jokes and we laughed so hard. i am the type of person who cannot easily laugh but somehow they made me laugh so hard haha. 

i still remember, the girls and the boys did pickup line to each other. actually i want to volunteer myself but somehow i was too shy,but its okay. it was lagho pun. hahaha. we also did cheers and fight with kolej beta where all of them are girls. That evening, kami kumpul ramai ramai and lawan lawan cheers. at first, alpha girls joined the beta's. but we are too little compared to them and kami diabaikan. so,the alpha's oc pindahkan kami dekat belakang alpha lelaki. actually for those who still don't understand,actually kolej beta is all girls. and kolej alpha is mix (b0ys and girls) but the girls in alpha is only a little,compared to beta. 1:10 .ramaikan?

unfortunately,petang tu dah nak hujan.. jadi kami pun berlari mencari tempat teduh. dan riadah pada petang itu dibatalkan. and so on the next day pun sama juga. so on thursday, we did riadah at night. bukan apa sangat pun,just wallk in crowd, pusing satu uitm. and we see all the faculties and college. it's fun ,seriously. and that time, i was walking with amira and amira. hahaha . amira the first is my roommate and amira the second is my new random friend. 

Okay so,i can make conclusion that,mds tapah was fun because the seniors (oc) were sporting and humble. They are soo good in handling us. So much respect!

And the best is,all the alpha's girls boleh bangun lambat,sebab 6.30 am baru berkumpul.😂

Okay,so that is my story. In Shaa Allah next post i will update about how i cure my acne. See ya! 💗💗

Assalamualaikum